Why do some people bounce back stronger?
Think about the last major setback you faced. A deal that fell through. A key hire who quit at the worst possible time. A major project derailed by factors outside your control.
How did you respond?
Some people retreat. They second-guess their abilities. They play it safe to avoid another blow. Others, however, seem to absorb the impact, recalibrate, and emerge even stronger.
What’s their secret? Resilience.
But let’s be clear—resilience isn’t about gritting your teeth and pushing through at all costs. It’s not about suppressing stress, pretending everything is fine, or ignoring failure. In fact, true resilience is the opposite. It’s about adapting, learning, and using adversity as fuel for future success.
And if you think resilience is something you either have or don’t have—think again. It’s a skill. A muscle. And like any muscle, it gets stronger with the right training.
Most leaders underestimate how much resilience (or lack of it) shapes their effectiveness. Here’s what happens when resilience is missing:
Now, let’s look at the other side. What does high resilience look like?
This is the mindset that turns short-term struggles into long-term success. And it’s something you can build—systematically. Let's explore how.
Resilience isn’t something that simply emerges in the face of adversity; it is built through intentional and sustained effort. People who actively cultivate resilience are better equipped to handle challenges, make clear decisions under pressure, and create environments where their teams can thrive.
It starts with self-awareness. Recognising how you respond to stress and setbacks allows you to develop strategies for managing them effectively. Instead of viewing difficulties as insurmountable obstacles, resilient people reframe them as opportunities for growth. They ask, What can I learn from this? and How can I improve next time? This shift in perspective fosters a mindset that embraces challenges rather than fearing them.
Resilience is built on three key foundations: mindset, emotional regulation, and habits. Let’s explore each one.
The way you interpret setbacks determines how you respond to them. Two people can face the same obstacle—one sees it as an opportunity to grow, while the other sees it as a confirmation of their limits. This difference comes down to mindset.
Psychologist Carol Dweck’s research on growth mindset shows that individuals who believe abilities and intelligence can be developed are more likely to persist through challenges. They embrace failure as part of the learning process rather than a sign of inadequacy. In contrast, those with a fixed mindset believe their abilities are static, leading to avoidance of difficult tasks and a fear of failure.
How to develop a resilient mindset
Reframing challenges is a powerful way to stay proactive rather than reactive.
Let’s say you receive critical feedback at work. A fixed mindset might interpret this as: “I’m not good enough.” A growth mindset, however, would frame it as: “This is an opportunity to improve and develop new skills.” By shifting your internal dialogue, you create a more constructive response to setbacks.
When faced with adversity, ask yourself:
Resilient individuals don’t suppress emotions—they understand and manage them. When adversity strikes, emotions like frustration, disappointment, and anxiety are normal. The key is processing these emotions without letting them dictate your actions.
Unchecked emotions can lead to impulsive reactions, clouded judgment, and burnout. Resilience comes from learning how to acknowledge emotions while maintaining control over your response.
Techniques to regulate emotions effectively
The 90-second rule
Neuroscientist Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor argues that an emotion only lasts about 90 seconds in the body unless we keep feeding it with our thoughts. If you notice frustration or anxiety building, try to let it pass without attaching a story to it. This stops you from spiralling into negativity.
Resilience isn’t built in a single moment of crisis—it’s developed through daily habits that prepare you for challenges before they arise. Just like physical fitness, mental toughness is strengthened through consistent practice.
Key resilience-building habits
The five-minute rule
If something feels overwhelming, commit to working on it for just five minutes. Often, the hardest part is getting started. This simple habit can help break inertia and build momentum in the face of resistance.
Resilience isn’t just an individual trait—it’s a cultural one. Just like individuals, teams with high resilience recover faster from setbacks, stay engaged during uncertainty, and remain motivated in the face of adversity.
The first step is to make sure people can discuss topics around resilience and how they are dealing with challenges.
Resilience and psychological safety
Google’s Project Aristotle found that psychological safety—the ability to take risks and speak up without fear—is the most crucial factor in high-performing teams. When people feel safe to voice concerns and admit mistakes, they are more likely to adapt and learn from setbacks, developing resilience.
Building psychological safety in a team starts with fostering an environment where individuals feel valued, heard, and respected. Leaders play a crucial role in setting the tone by actively listening to team members and encouraging open dialogue.
When people know their input is welcomed without fear of negative consequences, they are more likely to share their thoughts, concerns, and ideas. This openness enhances collaboration and innovation, as team members feel safe to challenge assumptions and contribute new perspectives.
Another key element of psychological safety is normalising mistakes as part of the learning process. Instead of assigning blame, leaders should focus on constructive problem-solving and lessons learned. Creating a culture where failure is seen as an opportunity for growth fosters resilience and encourages individuals to take calculated risks.
When employees are confident that they won’t be penalised for speaking up or making mistakes, they are more likely to experiment, adapt, and drive continuous improvement.
Resilience check-in
Consider introducing a regular resilience check-in (perhaps monthly) to provide a dedicated space to reflect on the team’s challenges, growth, and strategies for strengthening resilience. By setting aside time each month, you can guide discussions on setbacks encountered, lessons learned, and the necessary adjustments to improve adaptability.
These check-ins offer a structured way to manage stress, refine coping mechanisms, and ensure that resilience is continuously cultivated rather than left to chance.
You could discuss things like:
The key is to make these sessions meaningful—creating an open environment for dialogue and ensuring that insights translate into actionable steps for long-term success.
By embedding these practices into the team’s daily interactions, leaders can cultivate a resilient culture where individuals feel safe to take risks, learn from setbacks, and ultimately, thrive under pressure.
By understanding the key elements of resilience—psychological flexibility, strong support systems, and stress recovery—you can implement small but meaningful changes in your own daily practice. And for working with others, whether it's fostering psychological safety, encouraging open discussions about setbacks, or creating structured recovery periods, the goal is to build an adaptive mindset that transforms challenges into growth opportunities.
Applying these insights consistently will help you strengthen your own resilience and contribute to a culture where you support others to navigate adversity with confidence and purpose.
Here’s a quick self-check. Rate yourself from 1 (low) to 5 (high) on these:
Where did you score highest? Where could you improve?
You can also take some time to identify your triggers, for instance:
Challenge yourself to take one of these resilience-building actions today:
Resilience isn’t about never struggling. It’s about struggling well.
The best leaders aren’t those who avoid failure. They’re the ones who turn it into fuel.
What will you do differently this week to build resilience—for yourself and your team?
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